A500.2.3.RB_Andrzejewski
Some of the standards that are most
important in my life include both critical-thinking and non-critical-thinking
standards. Growing up like many children
my values and worldviews were formed based upon the non-critical-thinking
standards of faith and love. I had faith in what I was taught by my parents
and school and the love of my family was the foundation of everything. As I grew I expanded these standards to
include achievements in sports and giving back.
I suppose the achievements in sports was a way to challenge myself to be
the best that I could be and this carried into my future career as a display
aerobatic pilot, US Team member, competitive wingsuit BASE jumper and display
skydiver. The standard of giving back
was often expressed through volunteer work and eventually evolved into working
with a non-profit school in Ghana and teaching.
I have always felt that it is important for me to recognize the very
fortunate position that I am in as an American living in comfort with the
opportunities that have been given to me and to try to give back and share the
blessings that I have received with others.
Throughout the years my standards
continue to mature and expand and today I would say that while the core
standards of faith and love are still my foundation, I have added a few more
critical-thinking standards based on life experience. The world is not always fair and despite our
hard work and achievements things do not always go the way that we hope or
expect. Tragedies occur and there is
corruption and people who will do everything to put others down in order to
elevate themselves and their careers.
These types of truths have a way of crushing the naïve trust that we
grow up with and the growing pains that we experience over the years continue
to mold our views and perspectives. When
we experience great loss or great perceived unfairness the things that hold
value become incredibly clear while those things that are superficial become
less and less important. When we have
children things change all over again as our focus moves from ourselves to our
children.
Today I hold a standard of rational
thought and integrity based upon life experiences. Rational thought is a critical-thinking
standard that I needed to adapt in both my personal and professional
career. I have a tendency to lean
towards being very trusting and following my emotions and my best self-check is
to ensure that my decisions, thoughts and reactions are coming from a place of
rational thought. I feel this is
something that comes with maturity as we get older and something that is often
learned through the consequences of acting upon irrational thoughts. Integrity is important to me and is something
that helps me to always know that I am making decisions from a place that I can
feel good about myself no matter what the outcome.
Sometimes this means walking away from
opportunities or not straying from my personal values in order to seek after an
achievement or opportunity. If this
means that opportunity passes by, at least I can live with my decision and know
that I can be proud of myself for holding my own moral and ethical values. I have watched many of my colleagues take opportunities
that required them to bend to meet a certain mold and the result that I saw was
one based on ego and selfishness and putting others down in order to raise
themselves up, I could never live with myself if I had followed that path to
better my career. I’m very happy with my
achievements and accomplishments and with where my life and the standards that
I have based it upon has taken me. I can
look myself in the mirror and I will be able to raise my daughter knowing that
I don’t have anything to hide or be ashamed of and that I have done my very
best at this life so far.
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